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Is there a chat grow group anyone can let me know . I’m healing but 100 isolated and no one understands, not even therapist really get it.

Thank you ❤❤❤❤ sooo true, esp knowing that a narc wouldn’t choose a lazy person in the first place .

you really don't need to be kidnapped or go to war to have CPTSD. Just have contact with people. This planet is hell, monsters are among us.

Keep everything journaled. You need evidence. Good advice.

What would be a stable communication resolution 😊

When they give you the silent treatment whatever you do dont react. They want a reaction from you. They want to see you hurting. Thet feed off your pain that they caused.

Therapy works wonders for me especially when going through triggering new seasons where it’s now been few and far in between. Therapy helps take that muck out and redirect the perception and how we handle it/show up in it so I guess I’m confused

What a great video. Thank you. I was with a gal for a number of years who said all those things to me. It took me a long time to understand what was going on and it caused a lot of pain. In the comment section though, I read that saying Im sorry you're not feeling well is gaslighting? I've said that to her many times because she went so long not feeling well. Thoughts?

I had so many ailments that i couldnt explain. Body pain, headaches, rashes, ED and a horrible memory

What if your married to them you completely ignore them ?

Just like you said. I stopped dealing with her and then she took my daughter from me and still smears my name after over 15 years.

The answer ? ...Look at your prototype. Origins of hole in the soul.The rest is unconscious chemistry.

You're gaslighting every victim by sssuming victim ignorance "who uses it incorrectly". Wow are you entitled to Bow/ Not. Your doubts in victims reporting accuracy gives you away. People hit by a truck know its a truck whether its a semi or a moving van. The real problem is their are too dam many narcissist s people want to deny exist. Im not like you( "like me like you)": Dont put us together you want to call a whole bunch of victims idiots. Notice everyone elses silence. Your superiority takes everyones oxygen

Omg , I thought I was a freak with this sound sensitivity, I am almost a hermit at home now as I can’t deal with the noise of the outside world. I constantly think my friends look at me like I’m weird as I can’t tune out any sounds and startle so easily. Thank you this makes so much sense , even 4 years on from escaping narcissistic abuse.

My father and Ex husband are both Narcissists. I was tested for EARLY ONSET ALTIMETERS 10 years ago I suffered with severe memory loss, stumbling, falling, fatigue and the list goes on on. I am finally getting the right help I need But 1 thing my Xhusband did was to try to turn my children against me! I have a 21yr old son that doesn’t want to have any kind of Relationship with me! I was a stay at home mom until my son was in 8th grade. We were Soooooo close. His father was jealous and told me that the kids loved me more than him. His father brain washed him so bad that he says I AM CRAZY AND TOXIC! He Doesn’t want any type of relationship with me. My 20 year old twin girls did not go against me. Thank GOD the kids are doing Very well and are not Narcissistic at all. A little Selfish but they are in college and working and doing well! I love them to death. I am soooo happy that I stayed home with them. I LOVED EVERY SECOND!But it makes me soooooo Sad that my kids suffer! KARMA IS A BITCH and my X will suffer some day soon! My fathers Karma came when he had a Stroke and his wife died. He is All by himself!and I have NO CONTACT WITH HIM !!!!

You speak logic

Suffered from abuse for 10 years thanks to 'family' after coming out whilst also suffering from anxiety and depression (shoutout Jehovah's Witnesses/s). It got really bad. I had some kind of attack. That front part of my brain, burned, like it was boiling out of my skull, or melting. It was agonizing. Its been 3 years since i got away. But now, i have insomnia. I can't remember things i once could. I forget things often, like sand slipping through my hand. It took art from me. Id drawn for upwsrds several years. And now its gone, all the technical and mechanical knowledge. I really want to know if i can ever recover enough to be able to draw again. Im suffering, im not good at anything else, art means everything to me and I just want it back. Is my brain ruined forever?

WHY ONLY FOR WOMEN MEN GO THRU IT AS WELL

I’m struggling with feelings like I’m doing something that is keeping me from healing. Every time I hear “it’s going to take time” I just want to scream. 🥹 I was married to someone who I believe suffers from narcissism for 26+ years. I’ve heard the longer someone has been in an abusive relationship the longer it takes to heal. This is not encouraging.

I have been gone 2.5 months after a 35 years marriage with an extremely abusive NPD. I had my few weeks of adrenaline rush but just seen to be getting more and more depressed. Feel so hopeless. They really do steal everything including and even afterwards.

How to respond when they get mad ask why can’t you just agree with me?

As soon as I heard about what happened to the brain, I felt damaged.

Why? I had nothing but love. Still do.

Dad would say that I "misinterpreted what he said". Not true.

He cheated?!?! 🤯what an idiot! lol I’ve searched a lifetime thus far for your type.this truly amazes me that people lose genuinely wonderful people over and over

Sometimes I have to remind myself that I am not in the room or having a conversation with my ex, but with my husband

❤️ Iam sorry youve been through all this . When I hear a certain noise I fill up with emotion and feel upset, I have to stop myself from getting very tearful. Another is when my husband cracks his fingers it goes right through me really unsettling and I start to go right back to when my ex did this. Last night I begged him not to do it near me.

yes thank you

Truth on truth

Or I get a lot what’s wrong, have you hacked your thyroid meds yet? You know you get paranoid.

Turning something around, ? You need help!’ There’s something seriously wrong with you!’ ‘I’m serious, I think there’s something seriously wrong with you!!’ You need to see a psychiatrist or something because iam telling you, there is absolutely bo line on that covid test it’s in your head!! I never said that!!’ When I absolutely am certain they did say it. You’re so sensitive!’ What’s wrong with you?’ Iam worried about you, I’m really worried about you?’. All the above and more

Can not wait to receive my copy. 🎉

Thank you

I have felt exactly what your saying. And you were able to just calm me down.

Thank you ❤

These are basic ones...I had a narcissist come to me and say I need you to pretend like we are just friends and answer this question....so I do....than he gets mad and says I'm crazy because he says I'm lying and that I'm not being honest and Im lying???? Yes it that way for me now....what is the point of speaking up ....no matter what you say it will be deflected right back to you. Your feelings.just aren't valued..

I needed to hear this, thank you 💕 I have a chronic pain disorder and being broken up with and kicked out of my home by him, truly devastated me. Even when I’m in the most pain I’ve ever experienced, I feel like I have to be up and doing something or like I’m forgetting to do something. I have honestly made the chronic pain worse by avoiding the rest.. I don’t think as many people would avoid it or feel guilty if they haven’t been shamed for relaxing in the past. It’s truly tough to heal when you don’t even feel like your worthy enough to rest your body lol. Always take care of yourself, no matter what it takes ❤

Hag.

Tell it toem girl 💯

Oh shut it.. women display the most narcissistic qualities and end like 90% of relationship, but are always crying about narcissism 😂 You are the narcissist.

Trauma bound

It sounds like you still hurt by him leaving you

Would it be possible to become a narcissist from narcissistic abuse?

I am free now. I managed to pull my strength and leave after 18 years. The irony was that 3 months after he died with cancer. I was with him there. We were not married so I don't even benefit from his death. Starting all over with only experience to show for all the years. I feel scattered into million pieces. Not sure if I will pull through. I am so tired

I'm connected by the trauma with the narcissist even after being in hiding

The one I always hear is " He is just a work friend and lonely body builder". Ok... sure honey.

I am no -contact with my narcissist dad. He thinks the world ought to revolve around him. He's wrong!

They don't want to hear the truth!

I am utterly stuck in this disgusting trauma bond. It’s fresh I hope it begins to pass soon. Thanks for your time❤️

Absolutely have new supply when "they" move on.